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That tells him that you’re willing to be open and not take things too seriously. ) Tell him that you’re excited about taking your niece to the park and swinging on the swings with her. This may be difficult for you; it is for many women. You’ve got to get over this if you want to help men get to know you. (At least the good guys do.) He’s only going to know how fabulous you are – and if you’re a good match – if you get some of your shiny stuff out.Tell him you’re studying French because you have dreams of going to Paris. We aren’t used to talking about ourselves because we’ve been told it’s selfish and braggadocios. ) Real ladies are humble and let the man shine, right? Don’t be afraid to share your passions, interests, accomplishments, interesting life experiences and plans for the future.", "error_agemax": "You have not specified maximum age!", "error_birth_date_required": "Birthdate is required! ", "error_birth_date_invalid": "Please enter a valid date of birth.No matter your age, the way to connect with a man in the “I think you’re hot and would be interested in going out with you” way is to flirt.
It’s as true online as in person; flirtation isn’t about being a tease, it’s about showing your interest and curiosity – and piquing his.
A confident, grownup good guy needs to hear more than you think he’s cute or you like his dog.
Tell him you agree with something he says; ask his opinion; let him suggest a book or restaurant; tell him you appreciate his jokes or that his business sounds interesting. I recommend that my clients ask and answer this question out loud: What do I like about him and what do I want him to know about me?
Here are four ways to flirt with flair and class – whether online or off – so you can get that date, and the next: 1. Have you ever noticed that we use compliments to connect with other women? (Ahem: note the word “sincere.”) You can tell him he has nice eyes, and he’ll appreciate it.
But that won’t go so far as more substantive compliments.
The right guy will be drawn to you, and the wrong guy won’t. Bobbi invites you to join her Grownup Girls’ Night Out!