Girl's who visit your profile are much more inclined to want to meet, because they clicked on you for a reason (i.e.You're attractive, in their age range, and live near them). As others have mentioned, it really comes down to looks.When you are sending out a first message on an online dating site, what are proven, tried and tested first messages? I don't think there's going to be any one magic universal opener that will blow the doors off any and every girl. Many examples of guys putting lines up on here and within days being called out for it because every third message she receives is your own opener.. Within those categories, I've observed some patterns for success.
By the way, complimenting a woman on her personality is not being done often, so you’ll definitely stand out.
Also keep in mind that bad grammar, spelling mistakes and poor language are huge turnoffs.
Some girls respond well to complimentary openers, some don't. They usually have longer profiles, so look for something for an original joke.
Some respond well to cocky, edgy openers some see right through that and call you out. Drone- this is the hardest for me because these girls want to keep everything boring and their profiles give you nothing to work with.
I came up with some cautious questions for my protection in case… The key — and the best way to start a conversation — is to ask a question. Girls are tired of getting messages from guys who compliment our looks, but have nothing to say about the rest of our profiles.
For instance if you find you both love dogs, you could send a message like this:.
Here it is: Now, when a girl visits your profile before you check theirs out I always send: "Hey!
You checked me out and didn't say hi" It has a very high return response rate.
It's the second message that he uses to really get them interested. One that ALWAYS ensured a reply back was "I hope you aren't racist". I guess they always replied so that they could validate themselves somewhat so that they don't feel guilty or racist if they didn't reply. The line I've been using to message chicks is: "Hey I checked out your profile and you seem cool. " By saying I checked out their profile it implies that I did actually check them out which I didn't, I just look at their pictures.
Anytime a girl has an obvious travel photo, it's an easy opener: "looks like you've done some traveling, where are you going next" "what places are on your 2014 travel bucket list" If you recognize the city (NYC can be super obvious) "I was just in NYC, had a blast, how did you like it" etc. I word it like this: "hmmm, you kinda look like you could be trouble" or if she looks super slutty I'll be more direct: "yup, you're definitely trouble" There's no script that will get amazing results from every type of girl for every man. The message that you write for a party skank is different from an artsy girl is different from a corporate drone, etc.
Making her compliments based only on her looks could be a red flag if the compliment isn’t genuine.