MORE: 11 Undeniable Signs He Is In Love With You If you go out with a guy and he makes no indication of ever wanting to see you again, or he waits a few days to call (it’s one thing to do this after the first date, quite another to keep doing it after the second, third, or fourth), it means he’s on the fence about you and isn’t really feeling it. Probably because he has nothing else on the horizon and… If a guy is into you, he’ll make it known that he wants another date.
He might mention other date ideas he has for the two of you (he’ll find a way to slide it in there, like you say you love Indian food and him being like “I know a great Indian restaurant I’ll take you to next time”), or he’ll flat out tell you he wants to see you again.
They say he’s sending mixed messages or playing games or is afraid of getting hurt.Ladies, my many years of dating and writing about dating have taught me one thing: there are no mixed messages. Here are five tell-tale signs that he’s not: If a guy shows no interest or excitement over finding out who you are, it’s not a good sign. When I was single, my litmus test in determining how much I liked a guy was how much I want to know about him (it was a good test because with my husband, I couldn’t get enough and even after our 7-hour long first date there was so much more I was dying to know! If after a date I felt satisfied and literally didn’t have any questions I felt were left unanswered, I would move on to the next.He might not necessarily bring out all the skeletons in his closet to play, but he will share information that is more real.There is a big different between knowing about someone and .In fact, I’m regularly accused – with some accuracy – of being much harder on men than I am on women.
This is because, frankly, I want men to be , not something toxic that mistakes violence for power, anger for strength, sex for value.He says he really cares about you, but doesn’t really act like it.And while you’re on this topsy-turvy ride, all you want to know is does this guy like me or not?!Sometimes that means talking about things men are doing wrong, so they can recognize it and do better.Sometimes it means teaching men how to help themselves… Which is why I want to talk about a subject we don’t hear much about: when find themselves trapped in abusive relationships.We are inviting them into our world because we see the potential for them to become a part of it.